So how does touring dads like Nikki Sixx of Motley Crue bring up screwed up little kids into this world?
February 17, 2008
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So how does touring dads like Nikki Sixx of Motley Crue bring up screwed up little kids into this world?
Please explain this:
mind if i give my opinion? i just came across this thread on some article on google. first im wondering what interview your talking about where Donna said Rhyan was suicidal? ( i had seen some 50 question thing she answered & was confussed cause first she said Rhyans father abandoned him & then later in the interview they reffered to Rhyans biological father who i thought passed away. ao which one is she talking about,,,Nikki or his biological father? was she married to Rhyans father? did NIkki adopt Rhyan is that why shes saying he the father who abandoned him?
second, Donna says she misses the the other 3 kids but then turns around & complians about what it was like to deal with 5 kids & have nannies & how happy she is now with just her 2 kids & she has more time for just them.
third, Nikki wrote a book about his own diary enteries,,,a diary he wrote way before he met Donna. so he put his own buisness out there , I think its kind of a low blow for Donna to print personal letters that Nikki wrote privatley to her in re-hab. she was probably his best friend at the time & thought she was the one he could trust completly & now she gonna take that trust & his priivate words meant only for her & splatter them to everyone? not cool. if she wants to write about what it was like from her point to deal with him at that time, thats her buisness, but to put those private , vulnerable letters out there, not cool. she would be throwing another fit if Nikki had put her letters out there like that with out her permission. as far as ive read, Nikkis taken the higher road on this divorce meaning he hasnt been do the slandering in interviews & web site enteries. i think shes just pissed cause his life is moving along great & hes not kissing her ass to come back. have you noticed …. she talks about all these movies shes been filming…. where are they? 3 Star Wars movies didnt take this long to be made & relaeased. she needs to find a new man of money. just my opinion.
dear confused, donna is not publishing the contents of the letters written to her by nikki when he was in rehab, she is publishing her comments on the content of the letters, etc., please read up on these things, rhyan grew up with nikki since he was three years old, called him daddy, was being adopted by nikki, etc. it is uncool of you to post a comment with only half facts and base an opinion on that, half facts. her films were mostly foreign made, do you read at all? also, how do you know how she feels today? from reading?
and, once again, confused, you have brought up the subject of a suicidal child, which is hard for me to understand, why do you people enjoy talking about a minor whom you have never met like that so much? can’t you just watch the news or a movie or something for enjoyment? no need to bother with you anymore, i do not want to confuse you.
Question—how does any parent bring bring up screwed kids into this world? We all already know the answers, There are a lot of screwed up kids over here on the East coast too. How in this world did they get screwed up? Answers?
one last thing confused. did you not read that nikki came home from on tour back on drugs and alcohol and having an affair while on tour while donna was at home very pregnant and taking care of his and her kids? your whole comment was leading up to yet another bashing of donna d’errico, which was your intent all along! sorry, it does not go over very well. very lame, confused, very, very lame.
I thought Ms D’Errico was releasing the letters too, so I guess a fair few people are misinformed if what you say is correct, Rebecca.
Firstly, the comment I wish to make is re: the offense you (Rebecca) seem to take when an article like this is published. Why are you so invested in this anyway?
At the end of the day, fans of Nikki Sixx who “side” with him re: his divorce etc, probably won’t buy Donna’s book anyway. One could speculate that Donna’s book will rely on sales being from Sixx fans looking of a different kind of expose into his personal life, so keeping the press alive with tidbits of info from the D’Errico camp would be important with the book release.
I had no idea who Donna was until a fax crossed my desk re: The Heroin Diaries and I still had to google her name to put a face to it.
Articles like this will perpetuate, bring forth curious eyes and probably help Donna sell a few more books and again I can only speculate, but perhaps Rebecca works for Donna D’Errico.
nope, not at all, Ann. and I am not keeping this so sort of thing alive at all, I am commenting on some of the posts with a bash that a Crue fan tries to give Donna. Why? Because it is one-sided and unfair. It is easy to sit down and type out some words, it is hard to separate truth from disinformation for some though. Being a Motley fan is one thing, trying to prove you are a fan by bashing the ex of Nikki’s is, to me, odd anyway. Why bash the woman Nikki was married to for ten years? If Nikki was married to her for ten years, and she filed for divorce, not him, don’t you fans stop to think that maybe he wanted to be married to her, I thought you fans loved anything Nikki did or said or cared about. You see, I was married to a narcissist as well, for a long time, so I have some personal experience in that area, and, therefore, I know , in some ways, what she has been through, that is my main reason for standing up for Donna.
Once again, Donna herself should’ve never mentioned her son’s personal problems in the first place then. I don’t give a good goddam if he is her son! She friggin’ hides behind doing these interviews, etc. to help others. Bull****! Anyway, You have to expect people to comment on it! How ignorant are you to think that people aren’t going to be shocked/curious about what she said?! Jesus H.Christ! And, Donna knows that the book is going to sell but who’s it going to sell to?? Nikki’s fans! She’s basically a B-movie actress whom nobody really wants to know ANYTHING about other than her life with Nikki. Period. She’s releasing this book and hiding behind this facade of helping others by publishing “parts” of the letters or whatever and “commenting on them” (hmm wonder where that idea came from-Heroin Diaries anyone?). Helping others? Riiiight. That’d be like Lindsey Lohan’s mother releasing a book that dishes all about her daughgter’s downward spiral and say it’s to “help others”. Don’t call it something when you know it’s basically a book of dirt. Nikki IS her meal ticket and she’s smart enough to know that, hence the letters from rehab from him. Who the hell would want to hear about her days on the set of Baywatch or how she got tit implants?? She’s not Pamela Anderson, so nobody is going to give a rats ass. However, if her book involves Nikki, even if it’s a small part of her book, it’s going to sell! Do not try to tell me otherwise, either. Any moron can see that. Who the hell wants to read about HER life, only? People don’t even know who the hell she is. They want Nikki and it’s safe to say that 75% of people who bought Heroin Diaries, are gonna buy her book. She’s smart, I’ll give her that! Very
smart!
Am I one of those Nikki fans that swing from his testicles even when he’s in the wrong? Absolutely not! I know he isn’t a saint and he’s ****ed up on many occasions and he could be a jerkoff.
Also, it SEEMS, SO FAR, that he has taken the “high road” by not slamming her..SO FAR. He has made little jabs here and there IMO.. If you look closely, you can tell he’s bitter. He made some stabs about “being OVER playmates” and “throwing out the bimbo list” (um Mr. Sixx, YOU were the one dumped) after being asked about Donna, so it’s safe to say, it was teeny stab at her IMO-but make of it what you will. We all know this man likes to tear down his ex girlfriends, lovers, mistresses (Sam Maloney), and wives when it doesn’t work out or when he ****ed something up and it’s cowardly, yes, cowardly. I won’t be surprised if he starts slamming her soon and more often, somehow.
Now, yes, the boys biological father died ,I believe, so when she speaks of his “father” she means Nikki. Nikki is his father in the sense that he raised and adopted him, so therefore, it’s safe to say he abandoned him.
Annie
your last comment brings about a little speculation to others as well:
what is YOUR interest in this forum?
why do you give out predictions as to who will buy donna’s book?
why are you so curious as to who works for donna and who does not?
I can only speculate, but perhaps Annie works for Nikki.
WOW,,I agree with Annie, Rebecca must work for Donna. first let me say that article was a relply in a thread that was already started here & i was asking questions to clarify what i didnt understand, not to spread rumors. And like Annie said ALOT of people read or heard the same story of Donna publishing THE LETTERS. and i WAS NOT BASHING Rhyan,,,i was asking about him being suicidal because i havent read anything about that before & was wondering if it was in his past of if it was present . I was asking out of CONCERN,,,I WOULD NEVER MAKE FUN, OR BELITTLE A CHILDS EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS. I was just wondering whaer all that came from & if Donnas interview was referrring to Nikki as the father that abandned Rhyan or his biological father. even though Nikki was in his life a long time, his dad was still his dad. & i dont know if he had much of a relationship with the man.
Yes im a Sixx fan, & dont really care for Donna ,( im not saying Sixx walks on water, but Donna is not exactly perfect, ) but i feel no matter what or who,,he kids should be kept out of it & the press. for all we know , maybe Nikkis kids themselves dont want to see Donna. or maybe they do. Nikki & Donna are in the spotlight so i guess they have to expect to find there personal buisness draged through everything, but not the kids.
AND id like to add that i posted that comment on a thread & thought it would just have been added to the thread not made into an article. so who ever published it & wrote”explain this”….. theres my explaination. P.S yes Rebecca i can read.
i found ths site on google & i just noticed that the articles in HMM dot Biz that seem to have to do with Nikki have Rebecca all over them. If you dislike the man so much,,,, why are you even reading or posting in things that are about him? i clicked on a couple articles tonight & you seem to be scoulding everyone. Are you the “Donna Monitor”? kinda like the lunch lady?….lol. a little advice, RELAX!
no, katie, i will not relax, this subject is more to me than being the lunch lady, no i do not work for donna, i believe annie works for nikki though. sorry if i offended you, i just saw that once again, rhy’s being talked about again. you being a nikki sixx fan and not liking donna is, of course, your choice, yes, i bash back, any put downs about donna, and that includes her kids being talked about. by the way, katie, there is a big difference in slanderous interviews, and interviews where you are being honest, you did not address anything donna had to say in her interviews except to say they were slander, did it ever occur to you that she was giving honest answers, donna is moving on with her life as well, you say she needs to find another man to marry for his money, she did not marry nikki for his money, she wanted a prenup, he did not, a little something you did not know, maybe? he has not been kissing her a** to come back? she filed for divorce, remember? you are amusing, katie, also you are one-sided and ill informed, little facts but curious and a motley fan, that is you. i have nothing against motley crue, they are a great band. you mentioned again that you thought the kids should be kept out of the press, not talked about, yet you gave your opinion on the kids in your comments. so am i keeping this subject alive, no i am not, i reply to comments, and in your next comment, which you will, or course, have, let’s get you more informed. good nite.
Let it go if you’re a Sixx fan - you’re feeding the media frenzy Donna wants to sell her book. She saw how the use of the internet sold Nikki’s book, so she’s trying to do the same thing by generating ‘buzz’ with this kind of crap. Every page with Nikki’s name on it is going to get attention, so she’s going to use it to try and sell the book(s) and every other aspect of her career.
Not worth arguing about…
Ed, I can answer all four questions for you…
Q1. what is YOUR interest in this forum?
A: I own a music related website which is currently in final stages of development. Along with this one, I visit a dozen or so similar websites each day to keep up to date with current stories and to see what the public are discussing.
Q2. why do you give out predictions as to who will buy donna’s book?
A: I’m not making predictions, I’m simply looking at how a book such as Donna’s could be marketed and what demographic would/should hypothetically be targeted to increase sales.
Q3. why are you so curious as to who works for donna and who does not?
A;I’m not the slightest bit curious, but merely suggested that it could be the case. There’s no law against throwing out ideas and offering a different perspective on a particular topic. Rebecca reacts quite emotionally, which - in a lot of cases, indicates a personal vested interest. She’s revealed who she is and why she is emotional about this topic and I see no reason to further dispute that.
4: I can only speculate, but perhaps Annie works for Nikki.
A: If I worked for Nikki, I would be adhering to a code of ethics and refraining from partaking of discussions about my boss’s personal life on the internet.
My comments have nothing to do with what Nikki does in his personal life, but are merely in response to what comments have been left.
to motley fan:
your comment is rather odd. let go of what? bashing donna d’errico? is that what you are saying? because that is the only thing that got me started in the first place, seeing all the bashing of donna after her divorce, by motley fans. so now you are telling other fans to stop bashing donna? that is the message I get from you. some, not all by any means, but some fans started this whole thing, not me, everytime I looked up anything about donna d’errico, some motley fan(s) had posted vulgar remarks about donna there. what do you think I have been saying all along. I have been saying to stop, it is one-sided and unfair. also, some of the info was wrong on donna as well. so yes, please do stop, donna will sell her books anyway and donna will have a future and a good life anyway, so maybe the next series of bashing comments will be about you and your life, motley fan, whoever you are.
PISSEDOFFCRUEHEAD;
So I noticed that now, even though you voiced your opinion on donna, that you have now voiced your opinion somewhat on nikki as well, even though you are a crue fan. that is all I have ever looked for, a comment that is not totally onesided. now you are not being partial, though you are still very judgmental. thank you for allowing yourself to find fault, not on one side, but both. at least that is a beginning, right? and, by the way, donna, in her autobiography, will, of course, write a great deal about her marriage. why shouldn’t she, half of her adulthood was spent being married to nikki sixx. sure, I know he is famous, has a bigger fan base, but that is part of her life as well, but from a different perspective. all that ever really bothered me from past comments of crue fans is this: praise nikki, bash donna. I believe in giving credit where credit is due, so, pissedoffcruehead, I now give you credit for having a discussion. thank you.
this is part of the thread , please dont make into article.
Rebecca. sorry it took me a while to get back to you on your high horse, but i had surgery a couple weeks ago. so where should i start tonight.
yuo say i made the comment the kids should be kept out but then made a comment about them. the whole thing started cause i asked where it came from that Rhyan & something about suicide. i hadnt heard anything about that & i thought that was very sad. & i wasnt sure about donna comments about his dad,,,was she meaning Nikki or his biological dad, cause i dont remember nikki adopting him. either way , yes i do think its crappy that nikki has nothing to do with him. but what im trying to point out is this: you say you dont know donna , i dont know nikki. i dont think any fans of either party know the real truth about the divorce except irreconcilable differance which i think is what was listed. how do we know donna really isnt the one keeping rhyan from nikki? (not saying she is,,,just saying,,how do we know,,,WE DONT. just like we dont know what nikkis kids feelings are on the whole thing.)just because you read more about conna & her sadness & how miserable she was,,,,Nikki is automatically the bad guy. yes donna filed for divorce, but nikki moved out. didnt seem to even try, so maybe there are 2 sides to every coin. & can everyone PLEASE stop talking about donnas busy carreer. besides baywatch & a candyman movie,,,i cant say ive seen her do much.she talks about alot of projects,,,but where are they all? all we hear is how nice it is not to have 5 kids & nannies to deal with & how her & the kids are doing something great almost eveyday, which is great, but how does she fit in that enormous carreer?
couldnt it be they just both didnt have the love for each other anymore? then maybe neither has to be bashed. and you being a donna fan ,,i dont think ive insulted you like youve insulted me many times cause im a sixx & crue fan.
ok,,,theres my letter, start bashing & tell me everything i said is wrong.
Donna, as I understand it, gave up her career to be a stay at home mother to the kids.
Sixx is a known douchebag. End of discussion. 2 sides to every story? I think not. Not when the other party is THAT much of a douche-the douche’s side automatically is flawed. He just also recently ****ed an engaged woman (Kat Von D) but she’s pretty loose, from what I hear, so I guess they’re both douches and they deserve eachother.
He did the same with Brandi Brandt. Her carreer pretty much ended after she married him so he could go on making mediocre music while she stayed at home, however, she didn’t stay at home. She was a known party girl skank and his plan backfired on him when he was raising the brats while she was out getting porked by lord knows who.
What the hell is he going to fight? Do you have any idea how many chances Donna gave him?? He basically stuck his penis in every groupie, while being married to her, and she took him back for their children.
He adopted her son but wouldn’t let her adopt his other children. (narcisist). one day his children will probably abandon him like his father did him. His father knew his son was a douche. Smart man.
A douche with a alot of $$$$$$$$$$ !! He drives a $400,00 car .. What the hell do YOU drive ?? thats what i thought .. sit down loser….
So someone who drives a $400,000 car makes that person a winner? No matter how many lives that person has ruined? No not in my view! A loser is a loser is a loser, no matter now much money they have, they are poor in what people tend to value most and also a failure at being a human being.
WOW Rebecca! FOUR posts before anybody else has said anything on this!!! You are way to emotionally invested in this whole bashing Nikki Sixx thing. Maybe you should get a hobby, or a life.
MOTLEY CRUE…CRUEFEST BABY!!! WOO HOO!!!
Oh, and BTW Rebecca, you tell everyone that they are saying things not based on facts, you do this more than anybody.
Can I say…HYPOCRITE???
Yep, I bet you to it, Perfect 0, I mean Perfect 10, how come you are so slow?
Sure, you can say what you want, doesn’t everyone? Doest not mean you are right.
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is some heavy conversation…..
I agree with Perfect 10, Confused and Motley Fan. Oh yeah and Annie..
I don’t really know what Donna could write a book about. What would it say? I left Alabama to go to California, posed in the nude, did a stint on Bay Watch and then married a rock star who OBVIOUSLY ALREADY HAD A DRUG PROBLE and now I am going to CRY about it????!!!!
Come on….REALLY????
Now I want you all to know(EVEN IF YOU DON”T CARE)..I could careless what Donna puts in her book. It is always sad when children are involved but, she (Donna) is the one putting it out there. There is SO many people in this world that think Nikki Sixx is God. (I DON”T) but I do like his music. I DO think she is just mad because he is NOT begging her back. I couldn’t imagine how many times BOTH of them have filed for a divorce and then took it back. Get over it..
I will agree with Rebecca on one thing..”They (Donna & Nikki) should think of the children first.
Have a wonderful day everyone…
Donna Morgan
I’m not starting this off to be argumentative but what can Donna’s book say? I believe it can say alot and help alot of people. People want to probably know, well her fans, want to know how she dealt with her husband going to rehab, how it effected her children, etc. Also, it’s pretty evident Nikki’s fans will buy the book, too. Plus, it’s not going to be his entire letters, people! It’s going to be snippets of them and her take on them, etc. How is that any different from how he expoited the people in his book??
There are alot of people who think Nikki is God but that number has gone down loads since 1990. Alot of people, including respected artists, think he is a phoney fake with no talent.
Donna married Nikki, a person with a drug problem, yes, you have a point, however, she also married a narcisisist and was most likely unaware and charmed by him like most narcisists victims are. Nikki’s mental issues go far deeper than just drugs. He’s not just a conceited rockstar with an overblown ego-but a narcisisist. Crue fans always say “Sure he’s a narcisist cause he’s a rockstar!” Not true. That’s not the correct meaning of a narcisist how Donna meant it. Do any of you have any idea what that means? Basically, it’s like meeting the man of your dreams, who leads you to believe he’s something that he isn’t…A narcisist is a delusional phychopath. He uses and minipulates the people he claims to love while at the same time charming them.
And people really need to stop saying that Donna is just bitter because he isn’t begging her back. SHE IS THE ONE WHO LEFT HIM FOR THE LAST TIME!!!! EVEN IN HEROIN DIARIES, HE SAID “I’m single and I don’t want to be”. It was her who left him! Now he’s trying to dangle his trainwreck of a girlfriend he THINKS he’s in love probably trying to get Donna jealous. Puhleeze!
Wow. You guys actually admit you still like Motley Crue? No way would I ever do that. That’s an embarrassment kind of.
Hi MaryQuiteContrary:
I agree with so much of your comment.
You know, most people will look up the meaning of the word narcissist and think they know all about it.
All different kinds of narcissists, and they are the best at using language to get what they want.
You point was well written.
harlydav on April 17th, 2008 9:29 pm wrote:
“Wow. You guys actually admit you still like Motley Crue? No way would I ever do that. That’s an embarrassment kind of.”
STILL being the operating word here, you basically admit you DID like Motley Crue, but you don´t anymore because you find it embarrassing.
Thanks and good luck with your successful career as walking definition of the words Fake, Trendy and Loser